1 /5 Oil of Gladness: TOLD ME HE NEEDED MY HUSBAND INVOLVED TO SELL ME AUTO INSURANCE (HUSBAND DIED 7 YEARS ago)
I just had the most absurd conversation I think I’ve ever had with any insurance professional in my life.
I called in for a simple auto insurance quote yesterday. I finally received a return phone call today from this guy Luke Hammer in the College Station location. He told me how he “worked” was to get some more information from me about the vehicles and that he needed to come sit down with me and my HUSBAND in order to explain the coverage to us. He was very emphatic (3X) that my husband needed to be present. He was very condescending the way he spoke to me like it was a child. It came across very arrogant.
After listening to him go on, because he dominated the conversation so that I couldn’t get a word in edgewise, I was finally able to find a space to interject and tell him that my HUSBAND DIED 7 years ago. I also told him that when I was married to him for 18 years that he fully trusted me to handle simple business like shopping for auto insurance.
At this point, I guess he realized how foolish he sounded and told me “Ma’am, I just don’t think we will be able to do business together”, and hung up the phone.
First of all, without addressing the obvious, there is no reason to come to my home to sell me car insurance, which honestly feels a little creepy in today’s time. We buy insurance all the time nowadays online. He obviously wanted to sell me other policies. I have had insurance with them long ago, and never once did they come to my house to sell it to me. It felt very demanding and intrusive. I cannot even begin to explain how archaic this business model is, not to mention the obvious insinuation that I needed my husband present to make big decisions like car insurance.
He assumed I was married also which was very ignorant and insensitive. Are single or widowed women allowed to buy auto policies at Farm Bureau?
Reported him to the main office in Waco. The ladies there seemed to be very helpful and understanding. I am still reeling…but a bit amused by the absurdity of the conversation.